Day 3 : Drugs and Alcohol. I Think...

Hi Lovelies...

It's the third. I feel I'm really committed to this. I know some might think this is silly, but there no harm being silly if that makes you happy. :)

So Day 3 topic is a bit assignment stereotype.  I remember my English class with Ms Shalini (which i remember her name, surprisingly !) she ask us students to come up with a title for a public speaking next week. So, here I am. With high but being modest about my English. Since I first enter the class, i have been giving high expectation to the floor, so probably they expect me to speak good too. I am not too concern about that, at that moment. Not until my girl tell me what she expect from me. I am concern that I cannot find a title which is not too serious, but actually it do happen.

So, my topic is ... "Shopaholic". An addiction to buy things, eg; apparel, bags,sports equipment and etc.. without really think about, and later cause financial crisis to itself. Kinda met to the theme, right?

So back to our concern today which is Drugs and Alcohol.

Drug and Alcohol are two things that really connects with each other. Drug is another term for medicine. We use drugs in most of our daily consumption such as cough syrup, carbonate drinks, and so much more. It is importance to take prescription or advise from legal doctor of pharmacist before any intake of this substances. Drug has been use since the creation of men, from natural herb that is found in the jungle, and up until now, there are few people that still practicing natural herb as their remedies for health problem.

Alcohol on the other, is on of Drugs category. A liter of an alcoholic drinks which contains drugs may leads to few pros and cons. Alcoholic liquid can be a medicine to cuts or wounded parts of outer body. It can kill the bacteria from the wounded parts, ' just like in the movies'. Some use alcohol to stay warm. in cold country like Alaska, or even in the United States, cities like New York and Chicago, which apparently have been hit by 'Frozen', alcohol drinks might be one of the choice to get warm.

In my hometown, we treat alcohol drinks as a celebration of togetherness, We usually cook our own drink in the traditional way, and it is kept under room temperature. After 1 or 2 months, the drink is ready to be serve as Aramai Tii where all family members and friends come together to bind the relationship.

But obviously, both Drugs and Alcohol are triggering addiction problem. A DNA craving inside of human body which have been triggered due to some events or memory that causes trauma and loneliness. Then, these group of people tries to avoid thinking about it, by taking something to their knowledge, can ease the pain that they having. So, instead of praying hard and think on how to solve the equation, they took a de-tour, by taking some pills and drink alcohol.

Drugs and Alcohol, if combine can be a terrible partner. Some people took both at the same time, and the result is pretty nasty. They became unconscious. They have no control with their environment, their body and is a pain in the a**. Once, i follow my friend to a birthday party, they use the pills to let the birthday girl drunk. So this girl started laughing, crying, with every emotions she has, and start to fall due to massive dizziness. She fall down eventually and couldn't get up on her own. Is was really embarrassing.

But, she is lucky because we are there to bring her home. What if there's no one there to be with her, and some random stranger might bring her home, and do what God forbid to her, all the unwanted things, such as what we saw in the TV, read in the newspaper and scroll down Facebook news post.

Personally for me, the usage of Drug and Alcohol is not harmful if it used in low quantity. There is no need to take a lot of Drug, if it brings you down, And there is no need to consume and drinks hundreds of tins and bottles of whisky, rum, vodka, beer, 'tapai' if the problem is still there in the morning. It will never do you good if it over consume, and it will never solve the problem, unless the problem is to find who is the greater drinker and not vomit of all. But there will always someone who will beat you down.

Wow, its a long story to be told. I love writing long essays, which the title is not that factual.


I'll see you tomorrow with next challenge. Love you peeps.. :)

Day 2 : Where I'll be in 10 Years..

Hi again dearies...

There is no one at office so I decide to come back early and help my new housemate to move her things into the house. I am so impress that she got so many boxes of her things and i wonder how she manage to put everything in that small room.

So, Day 2 challenge is Where I'll be in 10 years. Let me use my imagination here....

To make things clear I am 26 years old now...**yep, last generation of the 80's..

So in 10 years time, here is my checklist;

1) Married,

hopefully with my current boyfriend.

2) Two kids at least,

- if more its better :)

3) Have own car

- automatic Mini Cooper :)

4) Starting/ Owning small business,

- so I don't need to go to work 7.30 am anymore. Been interested in wedding planner thingy and gowns. Or maybe bakery shop will do.

5) Been to Europe and Disneyland

- could be backpacking with love. Cheaper, Challenging and can be Cozy with love all the time. I'll post about it soon..

6) Travel across Vietnam

- in love with Vietnam, So much. I already start researching about the things to do and go there. 

7) Complete building family house at kampong.

- start building next year. No one can get married if this house is not finished. 

8) Probably living in landed house. **finger cross Mr Cali..!

- this is one of the dream Mr Cali and I dream of our future. To have landed house with a pond and small garden and place for puppy and chicken. 

9) Loving what I have and what I'm doing

- Key success of all this is to be Happy. Nothing will ever get done if we are not happy with our financial, partner and families. To love everything despite of their good and weakness sounds tacky, but its hard to be done. That's what i want to be able to do in the next 10 years. To be able to Forgive and Forget. 

10) Better and wiser

I would say this will be the same as above.

11) Prettier,

- so my children friends will be so envy of my kids because they have pretty mommy, and my husband will love my cooking , because I practice everyday/ every week. 

There you go..:) not much, because I hate to set high expectation in my life anymore. Less is better, Let Life Surprise me...

Thank you for reading this... :)

Any suggestion to improve my writing please do so in the comment below..Love you.

Day 1 : Current Relationship

Hi Beautiful Peoples...

How is your day? I hope its all fine and wonderful. Mine is great. Got 4 days holiday due to the festive season and i spent my whole weekend at home, which is quite rare these days. 

 So, as per challenge, I'm starting my entree with my current relationship status. Yes, I have a boyfriend. Honestly writing, we met in the wrong time, but perfect moment. I was in a 7-year relationship with my-ex and he was engaged. How not wrong could that be? 

 Perfect moment is when we found each other, where both of us need some air to breath and that air is with each other's arm. I was so content with my-ex, fulfilling his needs, facing his family as well as mine and neglecting what i want and what i need. It just that after I got the job, I started feeling like this is the time to stand and start talking. But, seems like a whisper to him. 

 So I met my boyfriend, who is also in the middle of heart dilemma. We met and start talking and laughing and crying and love comes after. I have tried so hard to avoid any special feelings, but he is so great, mature, and knows what he wants.

The thing I like the most is that, he dare to take up commitment and really strive to it. He plans his life, just like i love to plan, and he executes. Despite of his busy work schedule, he always try to have some time to catch with me and listen to my nonsense. 

We are in a long distance relationship. Due to work location, i have to stay in the city, while he regularly come and visit me every month. But, thanks to whoever create the Internet and Facetime, we manage to "see" and "talk" to each other all the time. 

 To say it is as a perfect relationship, I cannot say that. But, I believe in this relationship. We both want the same things. Maybe I want to work overseas and have experience and travel the world, while he want to have all the things he never had during his childhood, get a sporty bike or car. But he never let me feel that to would stop us.

I think, the best relationship is where you have 3 Things Honored. 

1) Trust 

2) Respect

3) Freedom

Every couple who mastered all these three elements, would have the Perfect Relationship. I would explain why in my next post dearies.

 We are working on it. Especially me.

 Things are going pretty well and heating up. I want to keep it that way. 

Love you all Lovelies. 

p/s - I am kind a new to this whole writing things, if you have comments, please share you thoughts so i can improve. Love you ..Muahhh!!

Prologue...

Everything will start with first.

Let me start with few of mine.

First day of school. First day of dentist appointment. First time of being injected, at school. First time blood transfer. First time being out of the house. First time boarding flight. First time clubbing ;) First time lying. First time stealing. First time owning. First Love.

I have been thinking of doing this for a long time. I think i did do once. But never got far. It was the time, where everyone has blog, and you wanted to have one, too. Just like when everyone has a boyfriend, and you wanted one, too. So you wouldn't be left alone, single.

It always worry me. Do i say it correctly? Do my English good enough? Will i not over-typing something too direct from my heart, that may interrupt the peace of social media writing and ended in Facebook with group PAGE.. " I HATE AOSHIA.APPY" ...

Guess i overthinking it though.

So, yeah. I did it again. This time it should be a good one. Since I'm writing with full conscience and ideas. Well, I am always with idea.

"There is no bad idea. It just need few twisting " This quote really boost my confidence to give more ideas.

As of now, i have no focus on this writing. So to create and ice-breaking, i figure maybe i should start with a 30 Post Day Challenge. I hope after completing this, I will have more topics to cover. I have so many ideas, topics and feelings to be express out, and I thought I give writing a try.

So this might be typical, but let me have a try. and we will see how it goes.

Be Safe :)